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VOLUNTEERS
“Many will be shocked to find
When the day of judgement nears
That there's a special place in heaven
Set aside for volunteers.”-Author unknown
"A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity." ~The Buddha~
Those who have visited this website know well of my passion for volunteers and volunteerism. For me, volunteerism is the foundation of all functioning societies and lies at the heart of our human inclination to protect and care for one another.
Let me recall a few examples of my postings on volunteerism and volunteers:
In Praise of Volunteerism: If you want to change yourself and the world for better, think of volunteerism --Your Body, Soul, Mind, Health, Happiness and Volunteerism for the Common Good --In Praise of Caring, Volunteerism and Service for the Common Good: The Story of Camila Batmanghelidjh --In Praise of Generosity, Compassion and Kindness: Lessons of London 2012 – and The Story of the GCGI
As I have said many times, there is no exaggeration, when I say my volunteering work, the GCGI, and more, have saved my life, bringing me much happiness and contentment, caring friends and lasting friendship.
Today, I wish to share with you, an excellent example of the benefits of volunteering, service in the interest of the common good.
It is the story of a young man, called John Morris, who is an activist, volunteer and student journalist. He is studying politics at Keele University.
How volunteering saved my life
Volunteering with the Scouts helped me through the most difficult time in my life and gave me the confidence to go to university
“If I had never joined the Scouts I'm near certain I'd be dead. Scouting, and volunteering in general, gave me a reason to keep going during my troublesome teenage years.
Scouts gave me an escape and a family when my mother was imprisoned for benefit fraud and my siblings were scattered by social services. And volunteering helped immensely during sixth form when I ended up living independently.
During my teenage years, there were times when I struggled and there were moments where I lagged behind in education. Scouting showed me that I could have an impact on the world – even if it was just giving kids something to do. Volunteering gave me what I needed to continue.
Within two years of joining, aged 16 and living by myself, I had raised £1,500 to travel to rural Gambia to build accommodation for teachers. I spent a month there sleeping in tents by the village, engulfed by the sights, sounds and smells of Africa. Two months later, I was camping out in -30C Russia, also as a volunteer.
Why do I think that volunteering is such a good thing to do? I believe that volunteering is worthwhile, no matter what your background is.
Jon Robinson, 22, is a medicine student at Keele University – and believes his voluntary work got him his place there. Jon has helped on wards at a local hospital, been publicity officer for both the University of Birmingham and National Nightline Association, and has set up the Keele branch of Mental Wealth.
He says: "I really think that everyone should have a go at voluntary work at some point, especially while you're at uni. Friends of mine who have gone into the real world find it much more difficult."
My volunteering has led to some amazing experiences. Firstly, a few weeks before starting university I was nominated by my Scout group for the Cambridgeshire young people of the year awards.
To my amazement, I won and accepted first place in front of hundreds of VIPs, friends and politicians. I've never done volunteering for rewards but this helped to show that what I was doing was worth it and that it really did make an impact on the world.
Another fantastic experience was when we went to a local town in Gambia. Towards the end of the expedition our group stayed in Kaira Konko, a scout centre in the local town of Soma. One of the leaders decided to abandon me, leaving me with around 80 kids, most of whom spoke limited or no English, to entertain.
Before long, with the help of an older child to translate and some very bad sign language from myself, I had them playing scout games and activities.
I still volunteer now, for the past year I've been part of Team v, a nationwide leadership program run by v-Inspired, and I continue to engage within the societies at my university campus and I am still a Scout.
I'd recommend volunteering to anyone. It not only enhances your CV, something which is becoming more important, but it gives you opportunities and skills that are otherwise inaccessible.
A report by the Scouts states that 91% of volunteers felt that Scouting has helped them develop key skills and a third felt that they had the ability to access opportunities that are either difficult or impossible to obtain otherwise.
Without volunteering I wouldn't be at university, I wouldn't have the confidence I do now, or be writing this article. Ultimately though, without volunteering I doubt I'd be here at all.”
This article was first published in the Guardian:
http://www.theguardian.com/education/mortarboard/2013/nov/07/volunteering-saved-my-life-student
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In December 2012 I posted a blog, reflecting on my experience with Facebook and other social media under the title of Is the Web Driving Us Mad? Where I wrote:
“The other day, I “Successfully” de-activated my Facebook account. I say “Successfully”, because Facebook does not make it easy to say good bye, even though I was just trying a short-term separation and not a divorce! At least for now. {Since then, I have now permanently deleted myself from Facebook}
You know, given human weaknesses to addiction, that is any form of addiction, I thought I was watching me and watching you to see if you were watching me, a bit too much: Watching who likes or unlike whatever I post there. As if one click here or there is enough for me to know how good or bad I am doing!
My mind was going “digital” and I was becoming “virtual”: And I said to myself, Hey Kamran, watch where you are going man!
I thought I needed a time out, a time for some reflection and soul-searching. I do not know if you, too, are facing the same or not.”…
That was December 2012. Today I was very saddened to learn about the untimely death of the respected sociologist, Clifford Nass, who had conducted pioneering research into how humans interact with technology and found that it was robbing us of the ability to concentrate, analyse or even feel empathy.
Clifford was born on April 3 1958 and died on November 2 2013, from an apparent heart attack whilst on a hiking holiday. At the time of his death Clifford was a sociology professor at Stanford University.
Today I read his obitury in The Telgraph and due to its significant relevance to what I had written last year, I have copied it below for your reflection.
Clifford Nass - Obituary
Clifford Nass was a sociologist who argued that digital multitasking makes us less sociable, less efficient and less clever
Clifford Nass, who has died aged 55, was an American academic whose observations on the ways people interact with computers and other digital devices revealed much about modern social and working life.
His findings dealt an old-fashioned hammer-blow to the idea that the proliferation of screens at every turn — be they PCs, laptops, tablets, televisions or even satnavs — is necessarily a “good thing”.
In particular Nass singled out the ubiquitous smartphone, which encourages users to multitask by juggling different “apps” while Tweeting, making or receiving calls, checking emails, monitoring social media, playing games and surfing the internet all at once. “It is not physiologically healthy for you,” he declared, “because [humans] are not built to do a multitude of tasks at one time. Your phone makes you feel like you have to respond, which then increases your stress and harms your cognitive thinking.”
A sociology professor at Stanford University, Nass conducted pioneering research into how humans interact with technology and found that it was robbing us of the ability to concentrate, analyse or even feel empathy. He diagnosed young people of the Twitter era as suffering from “emotion atrophy” as a result of insufficient face-to-face “practice in observing and experiencing true emotions”.
Far from making people sharper, jumping around from emailing to texting to posting on social media can scramble the brain, Nass concluded. “People who multitask all the time show worse thinking abilities in every dimension that we know of.”
In the course of a quarter of a century of studying people’s attempts to keep pace with constantly changing technology, Nass found that people who are regularly bombarded with several streams of electronic information do not pay attention, control their memory, or switch from one job to another as well as those who prefer to complete one task at a time.
Nor did he find that multitasking made us more efficient. In a study in 2009 Nass and his colleagues tested the notion that people who frequently juggled computer, phone or television screens, displayed some special skill at filtering out irrelevant information, or efficiently switched between tasks .
But he was shocked by the results: “It turns out multitaskers are terrible at every aspect of multitasking. They’re terrible at ignoring irrelevant information; they’re terrible at keeping information in their head nicely and neatly organised; and they’re terrible at switching from one task to another.” Curiously, Nass himself was an exception to the rule. A colleague described him as the greatest multitasker in the world. Contrary to his own research, “it only made him smarter”.
Nass’s research confirmed what every parent of a certain age has long suspected: that the modern appetite for more and more screen time can shorten attention spans and impair concentration. Last year, at an event organised by Stanford’s Centre for Advanced Study in the Behavioural Sciences, Nass pointed to research showing that teenage girls who spent endless hours watching videos and multitasking with digital devices tended to be less successful with social and emotional development than their counterparts who spent more time interacting face-to-face with friends, even if they too were also heavy users of media.
“We’ve got to make face-to-face time sacred,” he concluded, “and we have to bring back the saying we used to hear all the time, and now never hear: 'Look at me when I talk to you’.”
Clifford Ivar Nass was born on April 3 1958 in Teaneck, New Jersey, and graduated in Mathematics at Princeton in 1981 before joining the computer firm Intel, where he worked on the development of the 286 processing chip. He became increasingly interested in sociology, and particularly people’s interaction with technology. In 1986 he joined the staff at Stanford and was later appointed professor of communication.
His early research explored the idea that humans relate to technological devices socially, and treat computers as if they were people. Users, he found, felt flattered when they were praised by computerised voices. As new media proliferated, he noted how addicts preferred to retreat to the comfort of texting rather than deal with potential emotional connection (and conflict) with those in the same room. He was startled when a student explained why she was texting her boyfriend down the hall. “It’s more efficient,” she told him.
Nass founded the university’s Communication Between Humans and Interactive Media Lab, and was co-director of Stanford’s Centre for Automotive Research into communication within and between the cars of the future. His work on the computerised voices of satellite navigation systems demonstrated that most people prefer to take directions from a male synthetic voice. He noted that in the late 1990s BMW had to recall its 5 Series cars in Germany when men complained that the “voice” was female.
In his spare time he was also an accomplished magician.
Clifford Nass, who died of an apparent heart attack on a hiking holiday, was divorced. His partner, Barbara Pugliese, and his son survive him.
Clifford Nass, born April 3 1958, died November 2 2013
See the original source:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/obituaries/10433894/Clifford-Nass-Obituary.html?fb
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Today I wish to highly recommend a book by an author that I must admit has had a big influence on my thinking, attitude, writings and lectures. Everywhere I go, everything I say, all I write, they all include many references to “Love”. I owe a great deal of that to Harold Becker, Founder and President, The Love Foundation.
I've read a few of his books and many of his articles, and receive his Newsletter regularly. Harold is one of those rare individuals that live their message and reach others with compassion and gentleness. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to experience inner peace, contentment, growth and positive change, whilst discovering what it means, what it feels like, to be for the Common Good, in the service of others with love.
Excerpt from Unconditional Love - An Unlimited Way of Being